"Hey, why do we keep fighting?" I prepared for ENFP boyfriend and ISTJ girlfriend couples that I think ~
I think it's natural for us to hit it often because we're so different. ENFP You like new things and bright and lively? On the other hand, ISTJ I like to be planned and enjoy a quiet time. Because of this different personality, I keep misunderstanding and fighting.
Why are you fighting?
You like something new, but I like something stable: you want to have a new experience, but I feel more comfortable to move according to the planned schedule. So I keep bumping.
You like emotional expressions, but I like logical things: I hope you understand my feelings, but I feel more comfortable to explain logically. So do you feel that each other doesn't work?
You like to hang out with people, but I like to be alone: you want to play with friends, but I want to read a book quietly or have time alone. So you can feel neglected by each other.
How can I get along well?
Try to understand each other: Why are you different from me and why I'm different from you.
Honestly speaking: It's important to be honest when you're sad or angry. Let's say, "I feel injury when you do it."
Respect your time: you want to meet friends, and I need time alone. It is important to respect each other's time.
Have time together: Enhance your bonds by enjoying each other's hobbies or experiencing new things together.
Do not blame each other even if you fight: Even if you fight, you have to try to solve the problem rather than to blame each other.
If we two of us understand and work hard, we will be able to have a happy love enough ~
I'm curious about information about other MBTI types of couples: I'll find out and inform you about other MBTI types of couples.
I need a love counseling: If you need a love counseling, I will help you as much as possible by explaining the specific situation.
I want to know more about MBTI: If you want to know more about MBTI, I'll find out and inform you.
Let's work together to develop our relationships further ~
Tips for improving the relationship between ENFP boyfriend and ISTJ girlfriend
ENFP boyfriend and ISTJ girlfriend often encountered because of different personality, but if you understand and try each other, you can have a happy love.
The key is mutual understanding and communication. ENFP must respect the planning and stability of ISTJ, and ISTJ must accept ENFP's passion and positive energy. In addition, it is necessary to solve misunderstandings through honest conversations, acknowledge and respect each other's differences. Respecting your time and finding activities to enjoy together will also help improve your relationship.
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Mutual understanding: Recognize and respect each other's personality differences
Communication: Honestly talking and solving misunderstandings
Respect: Respect each person's time and personality
Together: Find a common interest and spend time together
Through this effort, the two will complement each other's strengths and create a deeper relationship.
