"Oh, this is not a bit ... how should I say?"
Are you a lot of ISFJ girlfriends who feel frustrated with ENFP boyfriend? ENFP boyfriend, a free soul, and a planned ISFJ girlfriend are so different that they are easy to conflict. So today I will tell you how to say when I want to break up with my ENFP boyfriend.
1. Honestly speaking: Honest is the best weapon ~
ENFP boyfriend is a candid person to express emotions. So honestly, "I think there's a problem between us," and "It's hard for me to meet like this." To be honest, your boyfriend will be able to understand your heart better.
2. Think about your boyfriend's feelings: Be careful not to hurt you ~
ENFP boyfriend may be hurt by your honest words. So, "I'm not a bad person," he says, "But we don't seem to fit each other."
3. Story about the future: Please support the new start ~
It's a sad thing to break up, but it's a good idea to tell a positive story about the future. "We'll have a better person to each one," "I want to be well in the future," please support each other.
4. Take time and make decisions: you don't have to rush ~
ISFJ takes time to make a decision. Please say to your boyfriend, "You can think with time."
5. Meet and talk in person: Meet in person rather than messages ~
It's better to meet and talk in person rather than phone or text. If you look at your face, you can reduce misunderstandings and understand each other's feelings better.
It's not easy to break up with ENFP boyfriend, but it's important to be courageous to talk honestly. Try to break up well without hurting each other ~