Among the MBTI types, ISFP women, classified as artists, have a delicate and warm sensibility and have a characteristic of longing for free souls. However, these personality characteristics often lead to conflict in relationships with lovers. We look at three main causes of conflicts that often occur in relationships with ISFP women and suggest solutions for healthier and happier relationships.
1. Difficult to express honest emotions
ISFP women have difficulty expressing their inner feelings. There is a tendency to hide feelings by worrying that it will burden the other person or ruin the relationship. But this suppressed feelings can eventually lead to a big conflict.
Solution:
Safe space: It is important to create a safe space that can be honest with your feelings.
Empathy instead of criticism: Efforts to empathize and understand rather than criticize or evaluate the other person's feelings.
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2. Excessive expectation and gap between reality
ISFP women are expecting a lot of expectations for the other person, and they are disappointed when they do not meet their expectations. The gap between this expectation and reality is the cause of frequent conflicts.
Solution:
Realistic expectations: It is important to set realistic expectations rather than unrealistic expectations for others.
Understanding the other person's position: We need to think from the other person's point of view and to understand that there may be difficulties for the other person.
Having your own time: It is important to have your own time and focus on yourself rather than rely on the other person.
3. Longing for freedom and rejection of redemption
ISFP women have a free soul and don't like redemption. The other person's excessive interest and jealousy can be a big stress for ISFP women.
Solution:
Respect for personal space: It is important to guarantee enough personal space for the other person and respect your hobbies and activities.
Trust: It is important to give each other freedom based on trust in the other person.
Communication through dialogue: We need efforts to honestly talk about each other's thoughts and feelings and understand each other's position.
The relationship with ISFP women is delicate and needed. It is important to understand and respect the other person's feelings and to communicate with each other. Please refer to the solutions presented above to find a way of communication and create a healthy and happy relationship.
Note: The above is based on the characteristics of the typical ISFP type, and it is not the same for all ISFP women. Different solutions may be required depending on the situation and relationship of each individual.