ESFJ ISTP ISTP women will explain three major problems that should be careful when dating.
1. Difference in communication style
ESFJ men prefer emotional and indirect communication, while ISTP women prefer logical and direct communication. These differences can misunderstand each other's messages or feel discomfort. For example, an ESFJ man can be hurt by a straightforward tone that does not take into account the other person's feelings, and ISTP women may be difficult to understand the indirect expression of the ESFJ man.
3. Difference between values and priorities
The ESFJ man regards interpersonal relationships and traditional values, but ISTP women consider freedom and independence more important. ESFJ men may feel that ISTP women do not invest enough time and effort, and ISTP women may feel burdened with ESFJ's relationship -centered values. The difference in these values can cause conflict.
To solve these problems, we need an attitude to understand and respect each other's personality differences. In addition, it is important to clarify each other's emotions and requirements through honest and open communication and find a compromise.
