ENFJ Boyfriend, thanks to the warm and positive charm, it's hard to be next to you, but for ENFJ with delicate emotions, the words that you have been thrown inadvertently can be a big wound.
"I'm so emotional."
ENFJ has excellent ability to be honest and deeply sympathetic with emotions. For them, the word "too emotional" can be heard as "you deny your biggest advantage ~". Instead, why don't you understand his feelings and ask, "Your heart is. What happened?"
"That's your problem."
ENFJ is important to help and share with people around you. "That's your problem," I can make them feel "I am not interested in you", "Do it alone." If you have a hard time, don't get sick alone, but it's important to show you how to solve it together.
"I look forward to too much."
ENFJ wants a deep bond in a relationship and really wants to share your heart. "I look forward to too much" can make them feel "I can't satisfy your expectations.", "You are too burdensome for me." We need a healthy conversation that honestly talks about each other's thoughts and expectations and meets the realistic good.
"Let's just go over."
ENFJ doesn't like conflicts, but covering important problems can give more stress. Instead of saying, "Let's just go over," I want to try to talk honestly and calmly.
"You are always this way."
Generalized expressions such as "You are always late", "You always can't arrange" can reduce ENFJ's self -esteem. Mentioning a specific situation, "It's a little late for today's meeting. What happened?" Or "How about this thing here?" It is much more effective to talk gently.
After all, the secret of happy love with ENFJ boyfriend is that it depends on the efforts to respect each other's feelings and to communicate with each other. Now, I will give you some pretty words to your lovely ENFJ boyfriend
